After 12 years of being falsely accused of abuse, lies, verbal,mental, emotional and physical abuse of me, by my only daughter. I’ve discontinued all contact with her. She would behave completely normal when she needed help in buying a car, needed money, or to exploit me somehow. Her father is deceased and she was a foster child for 12 years due to her unmanageable violence and mood disorders. She now has a son of a year old and has had her violent episodes of temper tantrums of cussing me out in his presence when I’ve denied her money recently. She turned around and called me horrific names, I locked her out of my house, she pounded on my windows and doors as her son sat in the hot car in the sun. She did this on two occasions. The child’s father is a deadbeat loser so I did not call the authorities for fear my grandson would end up with the biggest loser on planet earth. I can no longer take her abuse, she is not remorseful, but full of blame, pity parties, tries to guilt me, accuse me of things I’m not doing and in addition,she goes ballistic when I refuse to give her money. I don’t need this in my life and it’s broken my heart to take such a drastic move, but I don’t see my grandson anyways, only when she wants to exploit me for money does she bring him over to assuage me to give her what she wants. I wasn’t even invited to her 1st bday party, less than a month ago, because I asked her to leave my home and locked her out as she had a bipolar episode due to my lack of money for her. I only ask for people’s prayers and support, as my decision and mind is very made up. This wasn’t a rash decision I came to,it’s taken years and of her abusing me and then threatening to throw me in jail, which she already has done when she was 12 on her lies and false abuse charges. I simply want nothing more to do with her, ever again in my life. Perhaps if she becomes accountable for her actions, receives professional medical treatment and is medicated I may reconsider. I will miss my grandson very much, but I will not deal with her on any level that may incriminate me or cause me damage in my peaceful life, is not worth it. She is too volatile, unpredicatable and very, very cruel and manipulative. Thank you for reading this and for your prayers and support in my decision to protect myself at all costs.
Ms. Native Yaqui