Hello.  I’m trying to find help, not only for my daughter, but for us, her parents.  We’ve been struggling with BPD for all of my child’s life. She has never been diagnosed with BPD, as the health community will not diagnose until the age of 18. Well that has proven to be to late. She will be 18 in June and has told us today she will be moving to another state to be with a guy she met on line. As I see it, she will not he diagnosed or treated.  We fear to never see her again.  This is overwhelming.   We’re scared.  What can we do?