I am a man married 25 years. My wife abandons me when I need her most, I have a bad sickness and wife asked nothing about it. She knows it’s not going good but ignores it and me, I found out she has been having affairs for around 10 years. The clues were there but I thought I was just scared, I found a lot of proof online. She has depleted my bank account uses my children , if I leave I lose them she is very abusive verbally. Tell me she has to go out with work. But I found she has been meeting men from internet, I found adult movies of this, hidden emails phones website she has hidden bank accounts. And above all told me my sickness is annoying, and no one would ever want me. She even denies evidence i showed her, said if I continue its over and I will take kids from you. I can’t tell her about drs she doesn’t care I’m on my own trapped. I have never turned on her in any way. I’m 47 been with her 30 years, she’s been with me about 15. I’m helpless no money I’m now disabled, and I’m terrified for kids when I pass my only choice is fight for them. It’s been 3 years fighting as hard as I can, ultimately I have lost my battle. I just want my kids safe what she does is unsafe and my kids are only 10-12. I am so afraid they are going to be in danger, what she is doing is dangerous. What do I do. She told lies to friends and family about me being a bad person without me knowing there is nowhere for me to go.